How to Overcome Your Problem

Hello Monday morning:)
it's a nice atmosphere here...
how's life reader?

In this post, I will discuss about "How to Overcome Your Problem"..it's such a what should you do when you have a problem.
As we know, everyone in this world has problem in their life. If there's no problem in our life, it's not life. Problem teach us to become more mature enough by itself. The way to overcome our problem show us how mature we are to face life. A little problem that we have, it can be so disturbing thing in our life. So? How about the big problem? Waw! Maybe your brain is going to explode? Lol. But don't worry, God give us problem and a way to overcome it. All we need to do is find the way. Ok! Let's go to the point!:)

1. Ask yourself.
    The first that you can do if you have problem is ask yourself. It's mean that, think it by yourself. What the problem is and go take a mirror for introspect your self. You can go to somewhere that you like just by yourself, enjoy a cup of coffee maybe, or do your hobby. After you feel more calm and you can think clearly, the idea will come suddenly!
2. Ask your family/friends.
    All of people in this world were born to life and complete each other. Human is social beings. They need someone else in their life, it's impossible to live alone just with themselves in this world. That's why, I give you a suggest like this. You can share your problem with your family or your friends. They'll listen to your problem and help you to find the way to overcome it.It'll be very useful:) Try it:)

Nah! That's my suggestion for you:) I hope this post can be useful for you:)
Oh yea! Don't you ever try to escape in every problem that you have,just face it and solve it. But if you wanna hide or stay away for a while, it's ok. Maybe it can make you think more and then you can find that right way to overcome your problem. Remember, just for a while to hide or stay away from your problem, not forever.
Good luck:)

Thanks for reading, see ya'
Have a nice day!:)

Rainy!

Hey! What's up?
Long time no make some articles here, i was so busy yesterday because i spent my weekend in Malang, just to meet my old friends:)
Do you know what's the meaning of this title? I take this title, because I'm typing this post while enjoy the rain. I love rain. You know? Rain can make us become more calm than before, we'll get the fresh air, those smell good of the ground that touched by the rain, feel cold, and it'll clean all of the dust on the street. I'm so in love with rain!:)
Yea I know, when the rain is coming you can't go anywhere, it'll cancel your plan and then make you angry with that. But when you feel sad or gloomy, you'll enjoy it! You can listening some mellow music, you can write a story, make a poem, or just look back on your past. You can remember all the things that you miss in the past. I think we just can become a mellow suddenly. It's so funny, but I love it. We can refresh our mind when we see the rain that turn down from the sky. Oh yea, the sounds of those rain, especially the heavy rain, it can make us more calm. Just sit down beside your window, look at the rain, listen the pure sounds of the rain, think deeply about something....it'll be fun and refresh your mind! And the great part of rain, after it sometimes there'll a rainbow in the sky! A beautiful thing to see. All of 7 colors gather into one line. It's so beautiful! It's just like a life. If there's a rain, there'll a rainbow. It's mean that, in life..when you want to make your dream come true, sometimes you need to cry first, cry because you tired of trying, but after that..you'll get the rainbow it's mean...your dream already come true! You'll smile and just wonder about that. What a beautiful life!
May be, that's all..
Thank you for reading, see you :D

Another Opinion about Kampung Inggris

Hey, who knows about the place on the title of this post? I know everybody knows that. But you guys just know if Kampung Inggris is a place for learn English more deeply. Yap that's true, but someone out there just give the different opinion about Kampung Inggris, and i think she's right.
Kampung Inggris is just like a village full of dream. Do you know why? It's because, in this place we can get some new friends from many kinds of city, that we haven't imagine before. And in this place we can get a bestfriend or new sist/bro, just for 2 weeks! We can get closer with our friend, even it just 2 weeks! I know that 2 weeks is a short time for build the friendship. But in here everything can be happen. We get a new family, our second family! If you want to stay in here just 2 weeks, so you'll meet your 2nd family just for 2 weeks, if you want to stay here just 1 month, of course you'll meet your 2nd family just for 1 month and so on. Can you imagine before? Meet your new friends, bestfriend, family just at the short time! You live in a place that i think everything is cheaper than your hometown....haha just kidding :p And when you come back to your hometown, you'll just remember about all the things that you've done in Kampung Inggris, you don't know when you'll back to there! So, that's why I agree with that opinion, 'Kampung Inggris is Village Dream'. And what about the English education in here? haha i think there's no different opinion about this:) This place is a best place for someone who wants to learn English more deeply, because we learn from the basic, and we practice everyday with the English area:)
That's all, thanks for reading :)
Have a nice day!

The Meaning of Friend

Heyho! What a great Sunday morning, right?:) See the sunlight brighter than yesterday!
If the older post about definition of love, now in this post,i'd like to tell  you my statement about the meaning of friend.
Wohooo! Friend? I guess everybody knows about that :D Everyone in this world must have friend, even if just one friend, the poin is they still have friend:)
Yap, what's the meaning of friend? I know that everybody has their own statement about it.
Mine is, friend is someone who wants to accompany us whenever we need them and wherever we need them. Without see the degree of that person.Someone who wants to share their story of life to us. Someone who wants to share the love! Someone who can be our second brother/sister! Someone who wants to listen our story. When they're busy, they absolutely have a lil time for their friend! If they separated, they still keep in touch each other, no matter what! Someone who make a joke for someone else!haha If they insult each other, they just think that it's just a joke, they never take it personal.
Yea, a thousands meaning of friend out there! Maybe that's all.
I posted this just because i miss all of my friend who far away from me now, it's because we're in different city haha long time no see them, long time no have a chit chat with them, and long time no have a quality time with them!
In here, i just got a new bestfriend, she came from Bandung. We just like a sister, maybe it's because we have a lil same personality. But now. she just left this city! She should continue her study, oh my god, it's feel like i was dreaming! Just 2 weeks we got closer, just 2 weeks!!! Can you imagine that? But no matter what happen we still keep in touch each other:) even i wish she were here with me:)
I think, that's all for today!
Thanks for reading, enjoy your beautiful Sunday :)

Definition of Love

Love? What is the meaning of love? So many people talk about 'love love love love and love'. But what's the real meaning about love? Does anyone know that? I think no one know about the real meaning about love. Because, there's so many definition of love. Everyone has a statement about love. They interpret love by theirself, same with me. I have my own definition of love, and i'll tell it in here:)
When people talk about love, sometimes they can be sensitive suddenly! It happen cause, when someone say 'love' they just remember about their past, all of the great past or bad past about their love life. But, love isn't just for our boyfriend or our girlfriend. It can be for our parents, our friends, and our family. But, in here I'd like to tell you my statement about the definition of love for our someone special, yea the opposite sex from us, or it mostly called by 'crush'.
Love is something that can make you feel like you want to smile all the time, it feels like there's a something in your mind that make you like fly so high just by remember about his/her face! Just by hear their name, you'll feel like someone calling for you even if it's not. You'll remember about all the little things you had with him/her. All those not important word from him/her, yea you just will remember about it. And his/her face, you'll always remember it, you'll imagine that he/she smile at you and of course it make you smile like an idiot! But it's normal for people who in love, people who fall in love! How lucky the people who can still feel the love!
And about the definition of 'true love', it'll be a serious topic..true love is when you love someone without notice his/her look. You just love them. And sometimes you don't know the reason why you love him/her. When someone ask you, "why are you fall in love with him/her?", you'll answer "oh. i don't know, i think i just in love with him/her, i don't know why". Sometimes there's no need a reason to you to fall in love with someone, not by her/his look, money, or all the luxury thing in this world. You just in love with him/her without the reason. You just accept him/her flaw. The point is You love him/her without the reason.
\But, remember...not all the love life feel all the happiness. If there's a happiness, there's a sadness. But, calm down, don't you be afraid with the happiness! It just the way how you be grateful with all the happiness that Allah/God gave to you. Don't you too excited when you're happy, just be grateful enough. If the sadness come, you don't need to be sad because you should be grateful,that you still can feel the happiness.

Maybe that's all my statement about the definition of love. It's just my statement, not the others.
thanks for reading :)

Homesick!

hello everyone! long time no see! sorry i was too busy haha
now, i want to share about my feeling...deeply from my heart..

Tahun ini gue memilih untuk gak ngelanjutin kuliah dulu, gue memutuskan untuk belajar Bahasa Inggris di Pare, Kediri. Ya gak terlalu lama, sekitar 3 atau 4 bulan. Tapi apa yang gue rasain? Waktu terasa begitu lama buat gue. Pagi ini gue ngerasa bener-bener kangen sama semuanya, kangen keluarga, kangen sahabat-sahabat gue disana. Hari ini 4 September 2013 adalah hari ulang tahun salah satu sahabat gue, dia adalah Vita, sebelumnya i wanna say "happy birthday my beloved Vita!". Karna gue gak bisa ngucapin secara langsung jadi gue kirim dia voice note, ya kita ada diantara jarak yang jauh. Saat gue ngomong untuk voice note itu, gue mau nangis. Tiba-tiba aja, gue keinget semuanya. Semua hal yang indah, semua hal yang udah kita lewatin bareng-bareng. Dan gak cuma itu, tiba-tiba aja gue dapet pesan dari Syifa, yang intinya dia bilang kalo dia kangen sama 'jojobaba', dan itu ngebuat gue meneteskan air mata gue. Yap. 'jojobaba' adalah singkatan dari 'jomblo-jomblo bahagia bersama' yang terdiri dari sahabat waktu kita les dulu, ada Syifa, Muthia, Nimas. Kita juga udah ngelewatin banyak waktu bareng, susah seneng dalam belajar kita lewatin bareng-bareng. Dan untuk 'penyok', gue juga kangen kalian banget! Yap, 'penyok' itu adalah sebuah sebutan, kita bukan geng tapi hanya sekumpulan cewek-cewek yg autis sama dunia kita. Gak tau apa arti penyok itu apa, yang pasti hanya sebuah sebutan. Disana ada Vita, Mela, Lady, Wimbi, dan Ulfa. Mereka adalah best thing i've ever had in senior high school and for...ever :') Biasanya kalau diantara kita ada yang ulang tahun, kita bakal siapin surprise buat dateng kerumah si birthday girl itu...tapi sekarang? gue sama vita udah jauh dari rumah, kita jauh dari mereka. Biasanya kita kasih kue, kasih kado, tiup lilin bareng, foto-foto, ya walaupun terkadang ada beberapa surprise yang gagal..tapi kita gak peduli yang penting kehadiran dari kita, itu adalah poin yang penting! And the last but not the least! 'kompor'! i miss them so baddddddly! 'kompor' ,  juga bukan sebuah nama untuk geng, karna kita bukan geng tapi ya hanya sekumpulan wanita-wanita dengan penuh kasih sayang dan perhatian..ceilah haha gak perlu ya gue ceritain sejarah dari nama itu.. mereka adalah Hume, Atha dan Vivi. Yang jelas kita juga ngelewatin waktu bareng-bareng, kita nginep ya walaupun rumah kita deketan, kita nginep cuma buat begadang, nonton film, curhat-curhat ya semua hal-hal yang indah deh kita lakuin bareng-bareng. Sekarang semua hal itu tertunda untuk waktu yang menurut gue cukup lama...dearrrrr...Kompor,Penyok, Jojobaba! I MISS YOU!

sekian...
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Perasaan Emang Enggak Bisa Dipaksa!

heyhooo readers:) Long time no see and long time no make a new post hohoho
Apa kabar? Baik-baik aja ya pastinya:) Udah beberapa bulan ini gak sempet ngepost karna sibuk prepare untuk UN dan kalo sekarang prepare untuk SBMPTN, belajar-belajar dan belajar! Tetap harus semangat supaya bisa masuk PTN yg diinginkan:)
Back to the title, sekarang gue mau bahas tentang perasaan yang emang pada dasarnya gak bisa dipaksa! Gue punya satu cerita, untuk nama ,kita pake pura-pura aja ya. Untuk nama si cewek adalah A dan nama si cowok adalah B.

Si A ini pernah punya masa lalu sama si B, iya masa lalu pernah deket gitu nyaris jadian malah tapi sayangnya si B malah beralih ke cewek lain. Gimana perasaan si A waktu dia tau si B malah jadian sama cewek lain? Hancur. Iya hancur, dia ngerasa hatinya hancur banget waktu tau kabar kalo si B jadian sama cewek lain. Kalo kata orang-orang, si B itu disebut PHP (Pemberi Harapan Palsu). Jelas dia PHP, karna selama mereka deket ya si A tuh diperlakuin sama B udah selayaknya pacar deh! Yang diucapin Good Morning, Good Night, Have a nice dream, Getwellsoon, dan masih banyak perhatian lain yang A dapetin dari si B. Si A sama si B ini jadi miss communication gitu deh, si B ngejauhin si A. Yaudah mau gimana lagi, jadi si A juga ikut jauhin deh. Waktu pun berlalu, 1tahun, 2tahun...si A udah gak sakit hati lagi sama si B, walaupun si B gak pernah minta maaf tapi si A berusaha memaafkan. Sekarang si A udah punya seseorang yang baru lagi dihatinya. Si B juga, dia udah ganti-ganti pacar beberapa kali selama waktu berlalu. Nah sekarang tiba-tiba masa lalu A dateng kembali kehidupnya. Ya, si B kembali kehidupnya. Awalnya si A cuma mau memperbaiki hubungan mereka aja yang udah gak jelas kaya stranger gitu. Okelah mereka jadi bisa akrab lagi, mereka mulai chatingan, terus ya ngobrol-ngobrol gitu walau cuma sekedar didunia maya. Someday, mereka akhirnya buat rencana untuk pergi bareng, si B serasa excited banget karna emang sih tujuannya si B yg pengen. Sedangkan si A mau gak mau gitu, dia mau tapi dia takut dan malu buat ketemu si B lagi. Setelah dia inget kejadian beberapa tahun lalu itu. Ada sedikit rasa trauma buat si A ketemu si B lagi. Suatu kejadian yang ngebuat si A ngebatalin janjinya, alesanya masuk akal dan gak bisa disalahin juga. Minta maaflah si A, karna ngebatalin janjinya. Oke si B jawab seakan gak apa-apa, tapi si A nemuin kemarahan dan kekecewaan si B karna janjinya dibatalin, si A jadi gak terlalu suka waktu itu karna dia gak suka sama cowok yang didepan bilang X dibelakang maunya bilang Y. Tapi karna si A juga gak enak, yaudah akhirnya si A ngejadiin lagi janjinya. Tapi sayangnya ada lagi satu hal yang ngebuat si A ngebatalin lagi janjinya itu. Disitu balesan si B udah kaya gak enakin gitu, tp si A udah minta maaf. Sebenernya si A berharap kalau si B itu mau ngerti. Tapi sayangnya, si B ngulang hal yang sama, yaitu didepan bilang X dibelakang maunya Y. Si A nemuin beberapa tulisan si B ya yang isinya dia kecewa gitu sama si B. Si B kaya ngerasa di PHPin gitu sama si A. Entah apa dari awal si B emang udah berharap lebih, tapi emang dari awal si A ya biasa-biasa aja, she thinks that they're just friend. Si A ngerasa dengan sikapnya si B kaya gitu, dia ngerasa kalau perasaannya itu dipaksa. Dan si A tuh berfikir, "Hey lo kemana aja? Dulu lo nyia-nyiain gue, lo buang gue, tapi sekarang? lo pengen ngambil gue lagi gitu? emangnya gue apaan?!" itu yang ada dipikiran A.

Nah gitu ceritanya, jadi sih kesimpulannyaa menurut gue... Ya perasaan itu gak dipaksa, walaupun kita pernah punya masa lalu sama seseorang, pernah punya perasaan sama seseorang tapi gak berarti perasaan yang dulu itu bisa balik lagi. Karna perasaan yang dulu atau luka-luka yang dulu itu pasti udah ada yang nyembuhin, ya..dia itu orang lain yang ngisi hidup baru kita. Si orang baru itu bener-bener nyembuhin, ngilangin luka kita, dan ngebuat kita gak ngeliat ke bekas luka itu. Disini gue mau bilang sama kalian para laki-laki, kita wanita gak bisa diperlakuin seenaknya aja. Kita para wanita punya perasaan, ya emang kalian juga punya perasaan,tapi yang kita gunain tuh perasaan 90%, sedangkan kalian biasanya menggunakan perasaan <90% dan yang kebanyakan kalian gunain tuh logika. Kita wanita dan laki-laki emang beda, gak pernah bisa disama-samain, jadi disini poinnya, kita harus saling mengerti:)

Nah, sekian postingan kali ini:)
See you at the next post :D
Thanks for reading:)

Be Positive

hello guys:)
long time no see ;p
saat ini, gue mau ngasih kalian beberapa saran bagus yang harus kalian ikutin! Ok?:D

Kita sebagai manusia pasti selalu berpikir. nah dalam pikiran kita itu terbagi jadi dua, satu pikiran positif dan satu pikiran negatif, bener gak?
Kebanyakan orang lebih sering berpikir negatif, karna kadang gue juga ngerasain kok. Kita udah usaha buat selalu berpikir positif, tapi suka susah banget ngeyakininnya, bener kaan?:p
tapi tapi tapi, gue sekarang ngerti gimana hasilnya kalo kita selalu berpikir positif. Kita bisa ngedapetin hal yang kita mau, hal yang gak kita duga tapi bisa buat diri kita seneng, dan dengan berpikir positif juga kita bisa punya efek tersendiri dari dalam tubuh kita, yaitu kita jadi reflek ngerasa seneng setiap saat loh!^^
Nah bisa juga kebalikannya nih, mood juga bisa mempengaruhi pikiran kita loh! Kalo kita lagi seneng, bisa aja pikiran kita jadi ikutan seneng nah jadinya dia positif terus gituuu. Kaya gue contohnya, entah kenapa beberapa hari ini gue lagi ngerasa seneng terus,dan gue juga jadi gak pernah berpikir negatif tentang sesuatu. Kadang gue dapetin hal-hal gak terduga yang bikin gue makin seneng. Perlu kalian tau ya, pikiran negatif itu kan hal buruk yang belum terjadi tapi udah kita pikirkan, nah kalo hal itu kita terus pikirin bisa bisa nanti kejadian beneran, gamau kan kalo hal buruk yang gak kamu harapin dateng? Pasti gak dong!
Ayo mulai sekarang kalian harus buang jauh-jauh pikiran negatif yang ada di otak kalian. Pikiran negatif itu cuma ngerusak aja nantinya. Paham?;)

Thanks for reading:)