Both of You are The Best!

Pagi ini mendung kawan, setelah semalam perpisahan sama sahabat terbaik disini…sesuai sama suasana hati banget…ditinggal pulang sama sahabat :’)

Punya dua sahabat yang dua-duanya berasal dari daerah yang beda, jauh dan beda pulau pula..berasa mimpi!

Ketemu sama mereka tuh di Kampung Inggris ini, mereka adalah Aim dari Pontianak dan Wira dari Makassar! Waw banget gak pernah nyangka bisa dapet sahabat sejauh itu J Awalnya pertama kenal tuh sama Aim, kedatangan dia ke KI Cuma beda seminggu sama gue..orangnya kecil, mungil tapi tua…haha kesan pertama yang gue dapet dari dia itu ya anaknya kayanya seru, awal perkenalan diri aja dia udah ngelawak gitu, terus namanya juga sok imut banget, inget artis kecil yang satu itu..terus jadi sering ngeledekin namanya  dia haha Kalo Wira itu dia kalo gak salah datengnya beda sebulan sama gue..orangnya tinggi banget..pegel kalo ngobrol sama dia :p waktu lagi introduction yang berdua-berdua gitu pas study club, ternyata gue pernah dapet pasangan sama dia, dan kesan pertama ketemu dia itu gak banget…dia kenalan terus nerveous jadinya keringetan..keringetan banget segitu gugupnya haha masa iya kenalan sambil ngelap-ngelap keringet, terus ditambah  sama ekspresinya dia yang lucu banget haha

Hari demi hari, gak kerasa ternyata gue makin akrab sama mereka. Gue gak pernah inget harinya, waktunya,Cuma inget momen-momennya. Ngerasa pertama akrab itu sama Aim, gak tau gimana bisa gitu…ngerasa ya tiba-tiba jadi akrab aja. Kita sering ngabisin waktu bareng di Center (office RnB) sekedar Cuma ngobrol-ngobrol, internetan, bercanda-canda gitu..berharga banget waktu yang dihabiskan bersama mereka. Waktu itu kita pernah pergi seharian ke Malang, gak Cuma bertiga sih tapi sama 5orang lainnya. Kita ngabisin seharian bareng di Malang, kita awalnya mau ke Jatim Park, tapi gak jadi karena waktunya gak cukup..akhirnya kita ke Alun-alun Batu sama ke BNS.. Wira ini disini orangnya narsis banget! Gak ada abisnya! Ampun – ampunan kalo ngeliat dia udah narsis.. nah kita baru sampe KI lagi tuh malem, sekitar jam 8 malem.. seneng banget gila-gilaan sama mereka :D

Kerjaannya gue ya setiap hari hang out di center, numpang internetan karena waktu itu internet di camp lagi rusak..disitu gue kumpul sama mereka..selain itu gue punya sebutan lain buat mereka..mereka itu sahabat bokek gue… kenapa gue bilang gitu? Karena keseringan kita itu kalo bokek bareng-bareng haha Kita juga sering janjian buat puasa bareng..terus kalo udah mau maghrib biasanya si Wira traktir gorengan. Walopun Cuma gorengan tapi kalo dimakan bareng-bareng sama mereka tuh rasanya berharga banget. Kalo malem nih, kalo kita lagi kumpul dalam keadaan bokek, kita suka patungan..satu orang itu paling Cuma 2 ribu..dapet deh tuh 6 ribu..kita beliin cemilan favorit kita..”PANDA”..panda itu nama merk kacang sukro..harganya Cuma 2500..sisanya kita beliin minuman yang harga seribuan.. misalnya kopi-kopian itu ato teh gelas..kalo ada sisa 500 itu paling dibeliin makaroni pedes itu yang kecil, dimakan deh bareng-bareng :D Hal kaya gitu kita sebut ‘Party – Party’…party kecil-kecilan.. Kalau lagi ujan terus kebetulan kita lagi kumpul.. kadang kita patungan beli Indomie..biasanya Wira jadi donatur terbanyak.. gue jadi pembelinya, Aim jadi kokinya.. indominya ditaro di mangkok gede, terus kita makan bareng-bareng..seru banget!

Selain ngabisin waktu sama mereka dalam keadaan senang, mereka juga selalu ada disaat-saat sedih. Mereka itu orang yang gak pernah bosen dengerin curhatan-curhatan sampah gue.. apa aja gue curhatin ke mereka… dan mereka juga gak pernah capek ngasih saran buat gue.. mereka temen galau gue juga haha 

Kalo gue galau, gue larinya ke mereka.. biasanya gue jadi suka lupa sama galau gue. Aim dengan kata-kata bijaknya kalo nasehatin gue, Wira dengan ekspresi stressnya kalo udah ngeliat gue uring-uringan.. Kalopun gue lagi bete gitu ya lagi stress, ya gue datengnya ke mereka, nanti mereka ngasih saran terus ikutan stress juga liat gue stress haha Pernah waktu itu gue lagi galau malem-malem, gue tarik mereka berdua, gue paksa buat ngikutin gue..akhirnya kita Cuma muter Jalan Anyelir, itupun mereka terpaksa haha tapi mereka baik..mereka mau nemenin gue, sampe-sampe mereka yang bawa gue waktu mau baliknya itu lewat jalan kecil yang gelap banget, tapi gue ngerasa aman karena ada mereka!

Sekian lama bareng sama mereka, akhirnya gue punya sebutan untuk setiap nama mereka.

Aim itu gue kasih sebutan my tutor of love, karna apa? Dia adalah tempat dimana gue banyak minta saran soal cinta huahaha Dari mulai pertama gue lagi naksir sama orang, sampe dia bantuin gue, sampe gue putuspun dia selalu ada buat nampung cerita-cerita gue.. selalu ngasih saran terbaiknya buat gue.. kadang kata-katanya dia gak terlalu gue dengerin.. haha Selain ngajarin gue soal cinta, dari dia juga gue banyak belajar tentang agama.. calon ustadz yang satu itu hampir tau semua tentang agama, apapun yang gue tanya dia tau. Ngajinya dia juga keren banget! Tapi di bulan Januari Aim udah bangun dari mimpinya, dia balik ke kampungnya, Pontianak. Sedih banget ditinggal Aim, kehilangan satu sahabat bokek gue, walopun dia bilang masih ada Wira disini tapi ya tetep aja gue sedih.. gue butuh dia! Hari kepulangan dia, sambil nunggu dia packing gue stay di camp.. tiba-tiba temen gue manggil gue katanya travelnya udah dateng, langsung gue turun ke Center..feelnya udah gue mau nangis aja, diterakhir perpisahan itu gue ngasih dia surat, Cuma sekedar kata-kata terim kasih aja buat dia. Waktu itu kita salaman, dia bilang ke gue “makasih yo”, selesai itu dia masuk ke mobil travel, say good bye buat semuanya. Pas mobil travelnya udah pergi, gue balik ke camp.. gue nangis.. I MISS YOU MY TUTOR OF LOVE!

Ini si jelek Aim. 

Wira itu gue kasih sebutan Pet! Karna apa? Bukan karna dia beneran jadi hewan peliharaan gue kook.. gini sejarahnya.. dulu si Wira itu suka banget niruin suara Scooby Doo.. yang serak-serak gitu lucu banget bikin ketawa. Hampir setiap ketemu pasti gue nyuruh dia ngeluarin Scooby Doo voicenya, dan dia nurut aja haha :D terus waktu kita party-party itu, gue ngelemparin sukronya ke wira..dan wira nangkep pake mulutnya..iya aja gue panggil dia ‘blacky come on’ haha dia gak marah, tapi gak berlanjut dengan panggilan blacky kok, akhirnya gue manggil dia Pet! Setiap ketemu pasti gue manggilnya Pet.. udah bukan Wira lagi. Gue ajarin dia main The Sims.. dia seneng banget main The Sims, nama karakternya ‘Albert Einstein’, dia pakein style yang keren banget, dan katanya itu mirip dia haha Dia pakein itu karakternya scarf.. dan besoknya dia pake scarf niru-niru si karakternya dia itu..haha lucu banget! Tapi dia dengan soknya bilang ‘aku bukan pet lagi, sekarang namaku albert’, selesai itu sempet aku panggil dia Albert, tapi gak bertahan lama.. kembali lagi ke panggilan Pet.. Dia selalu bohongin gue bilang kalo dia mau pulang, setiap dia bilang gitu selalu aja dia gue pukulin.. benci banget kalo dia bilang mau pulang terus.. tapi.. semalem kejadian juga, dia pulang.. kirain dia bohong eh ternyata bener.. gue pukulin dia, gue cubitin dia..gue teriakin dia, gue bilang kalo gue benci dia! Dia ninggalin gue sendiri! Tapi…mau gimana lagi kan? Yaudah pulanglah dia ke kampungnya.. ngelanjutin hidupnya, bangun dari mimpinya.. Semalem gak kuat nahan nangis didepan dia.. pertama kalinya gue nangis didepan orang.. Dia ngasih kata-kata semangat ke gue, “see you next time, jangan down gitu dong.. semangat ya ngajarnya!”..  Pet… I MISS YOU!

Nah this is my annoying pet!

Sekarang kita udah pisah, tapi mereka tetep sahabat terbaik gue! Kita pernah berandai-andai, suatu saat nanti kalo kita udah sukses kita bakal ketemu lagi di RnB ini..Aim bilang mau jadi Presiden, Wira bilang mau jadi Jendral nanti, kalo gue sendiri Psikolog.. dan mereka juga janji sama gue mau ke Jakarta. Kita bakal ketemuan disana.

Gue cuma mau bilang, Aim, Pet.. makasih ya udah mau jadi sahabat gue disini.. maaf kalo banyak ngerepotin kalian.. kalian yang terbaik, makasih buat semua kegilaan kalian! Kita pasti ketemu di kesempatan dan situasi yang lebih baik! I Love you guys, I need you, and I miss you.. everyday! I just wanna say..

BOTH OF YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!! <3

Thank you for reading :D

How to Overcome Your Problem

Hello Monday morning:)
it's a nice atmosphere here...
how's life reader?

In this post, I will discuss about "How to Overcome Your Problem"..it's such a what should you do when you have a problem.
As we know, everyone in this world has problem in their life. If there's no problem in our life, it's not life. Problem teach us to become more mature enough by itself. The way to overcome our problem show us how mature we are to face life. A little problem that we have, it can be so disturbing thing in our life. So? How about the big problem? Waw! Maybe your brain is going to explode? Lol. But don't worry, God give us problem and a way to overcome it. All we need to do is find the way. Ok! Let's go to the point!:)

1. Ask yourself.
    The first that you can do if you have problem is ask yourself. It's mean that, think it by yourself. What the problem is and go take a mirror for introspect your self. You can go to somewhere that you like just by yourself, enjoy a cup of coffee maybe, or do your hobby. After you feel more calm and you can think clearly, the idea will come suddenly!
2. Ask your family/friends.
    All of people in this world were born to life and complete each other. Human is social beings. They need someone else in their life, it's impossible to live alone just with themselves in this world. That's why, I give you a suggest like this. You can share your problem with your family or your friends. They'll listen to your problem and help you to find the way to overcome it.It'll be very useful:) Try it:)

Nah! That's my suggestion for you:) I hope this post can be useful for you:)
Oh yea! Don't you ever try to escape in every problem that you have,just face it and solve it. But if you wanna hide or stay away for a while, it's ok. Maybe it can make you think more and then you can find that right way to overcome your problem. Remember, just for a while to hide or stay away from your problem, not forever.
Good luck:)

Thanks for reading, see ya'
Have a nice day!:)

Rainy!

Hey! What's up?
Long time no make some articles here, i was so busy yesterday because i spent my weekend in Malang, just to meet my old friends:)
Do you know what's the meaning of this title? I take this title, because I'm typing this post while enjoy the rain. I love rain. You know? Rain can make us become more calm than before, we'll get the fresh air, those smell good of the ground that touched by the rain, feel cold, and it'll clean all of the dust on the street. I'm so in love with rain!:)
Yea I know, when the rain is coming you can't go anywhere, it'll cancel your plan and then make you angry with that. But when you feel sad or gloomy, you'll enjoy it! You can listening some mellow music, you can write a story, make a poem, or just look back on your past. You can remember all the things that you miss in the past. I think we just can become a mellow suddenly. It's so funny, but I love it. We can refresh our mind when we see the rain that turn down from the sky. Oh yea, the sounds of those rain, especially the heavy rain, it can make us more calm. Just sit down beside your window, look at the rain, listen the pure sounds of the rain, think deeply about something....it'll be fun and refresh your mind! And the great part of rain, after it sometimes there'll a rainbow in the sky! A beautiful thing to see. All of 7 colors gather into one line. It's so beautiful! It's just like a life. If there's a rain, there'll a rainbow. It's mean that, in life..when you want to make your dream come true, sometimes you need to cry first, cry because you tired of trying, but after that..you'll get the rainbow it's mean...your dream already come true! You'll smile and just wonder about that. What a beautiful life!
May be, that's all..
Thank you for reading, see you :D

Another Opinion about Kampung Inggris

Hey, who knows about the place on the title of this post? I know everybody knows that. But you guys just know if Kampung Inggris is a place for learn English more deeply. Yap that's true, but someone out there just give the different opinion about Kampung Inggris, and i think she's right.
Kampung Inggris is just like a village full of dream. Do you know why? It's because, in this place we can get some new friends from many kinds of city, that we haven't imagine before. And in this place we can get a bestfriend or new sist/bro, just for 2 weeks! We can get closer with our friend, even it just 2 weeks! I know that 2 weeks is a short time for build the friendship. But in here everything can be happen. We get a new family, our second family! If you want to stay in here just 2 weeks, so you'll meet your 2nd family just for 2 weeks, if you want to stay here just 1 month, of course you'll meet your 2nd family just for 1 month and so on. Can you imagine before? Meet your new friends, bestfriend, family just at the short time! You live in a place that i think everything is cheaper than your hometown....haha just kidding :p And when you come back to your hometown, you'll just remember about all the things that you've done in Kampung Inggris, you don't know when you'll back to there! So, that's why I agree with that opinion, 'Kampung Inggris is Village Dream'. And what about the English education in here? haha i think there's no different opinion about this:) This place is a best place for someone who wants to learn English more deeply, because we learn from the basic, and we practice everyday with the English area:)
That's all, thanks for reading :)
Have a nice day!

The Meaning of Friend

Heyho! What a great Sunday morning, right?:) See the sunlight brighter than yesterday!
If the older post about definition of love, now in this post,i'd like to tell  you my statement about the meaning of friend.
Wohooo! Friend? I guess everybody knows about that :D Everyone in this world must have friend, even if just one friend, the poin is they still have friend:)
Yap, what's the meaning of friend? I know that everybody has their own statement about it.
Mine is, friend is someone who wants to accompany us whenever we need them and wherever we need them. Without see the degree of that person.Someone who wants to share their story of life to us. Someone who wants to share the love! Someone who can be our second brother/sister! Someone who wants to listen our story. When they're busy, they absolutely have a lil time for their friend! If they separated, they still keep in touch each other, no matter what! Someone who make a joke for someone else!haha If they insult each other, they just think that it's just a joke, they never take it personal.
Yea, a thousands meaning of friend out there! Maybe that's all.
I posted this just because i miss all of my friend who far away from me now, it's because we're in different city haha long time no see them, long time no have a chit chat with them, and long time no have a quality time with them!
In here, i just got a new bestfriend, she came from Bandung. We just like a sister, maybe it's because we have a lil same personality. But now. she just left this city! She should continue her study, oh my god, it's feel like i was dreaming! Just 2 weeks we got closer, just 2 weeks!!! Can you imagine that? But no matter what happen we still keep in touch each other:) even i wish she were here with me:)
I think, that's all for today!
Thanks for reading, enjoy your beautiful Sunday :)

Definition of Love

Love? What is the meaning of love? So many people talk about 'love love love love and love'. But what's the real meaning about love? Does anyone know that? I think no one know about the real meaning about love. Because, there's so many definition of love. Everyone has a statement about love. They interpret love by theirself, same with me. I have my own definition of love, and i'll tell it in here:)
When people talk about love, sometimes they can be sensitive suddenly! It happen cause, when someone say 'love' they just remember about their past, all of the great past or bad past about their love life. But, love isn't just for our boyfriend or our girlfriend. It can be for our parents, our friends, and our family. But, in here I'd like to tell you my statement about the definition of love for our someone special, yea the opposite sex from us, or it mostly called by 'crush'.
Love is something that can make you feel like you want to smile all the time, it feels like there's a something in your mind that make you like fly so high just by remember about his/her face! Just by hear their name, you'll feel like someone calling for you even if it's not. You'll remember about all the little things you had with him/her. All those not important word from him/her, yea you just will remember about it. And his/her face, you'll always remember it, you'll imagine that he/she smile at you and of course it make you smile like an idiot! But it's normal for people who in love, people who fall in love! How lucky the people who can still feel the love!
And about the definition of 'true love', it'll be a serious topic..true love is when you love someone without notice his/her look. You just love them. And sometimes you don't know the reason why you love him/her. When someone ask you, "why are you fall in love with him/her?", you'll answer "oh. i don't know, i think i just in love with him/her, i don't know why". Sometimes there's no need a reason to you to fall in love with someone, not by her/his look, money, or all the luxury thing in this world. You just in love with him/her without the reason. You just accept him/her flaw. The point is You love him/her without the reason.
\But, remember...not all the love life feel all the happiness. If there's a happiness, there's a sadness. But, calm down, don't you be afraid with the happiness! It just the way how you be grateful with all the happiness that Allah/God gave to you. Don't you too excited when you're happy, just be grateful enough. If the sadness come, you don't need to be sad because you should be grateful,that you still can feel the happiness.

Maybe that's all my statement about the definition of love. It's just my statement, not the others.
thanks for reading :)

Homesick!

hello everyone! long time no see! sorry i was too busy haha
now, i want to share about my feeling...deeply from my heart..

Tahun ini gue memilih untuk gak ngelanjutin kuliah dulu, gue memutuskan untuk belajar Bahasa Inggris di Pare, Kediri. Ya gak terlalu lama, sekitar 3 atau 4 bulan. Tapi apa yang gue rasain? Waktu terasa begitu lama buat gue. Pagi ini gue ngerasa bener-bener kangen sama semuanya, kangen keluarga, kangen sahabat-sahabat gue disana. Hari ini 4 September 2013 adalah hari ulang tahun salah satu sahabat gue, dia adalah Vita, sebelumnya i wanna say "happy birthday my beloved Vita!". Karna gue gak bisa ngucapin secara langsung jadi gue kirim dia voice note, ya kita ada diantara jarak yang jauh. Saat gue ngomong untuk voice note itu, gue mau nangis. Tiba-tiba aja, gue keinget semuanya. Semua hal yang indah, semua hal yang udah kita lewatin bareng-bareng. Dan gak cuma itu, tiba-tiba aja gue dapet pesan dari Syifa, yang intinya dia bilang kalo dia kangen sama 'jojobaba', dan itu ngebuat gue meneteskan air mata gue. Yap. 'jojobaba' adalah singkatan dari 'jomblo-jomblo bahagia bersama' yang terdiri dari sahabat waktu kita les dulu, ada Syifa, Muthia, Nimas. Kita juga udah ngelewatin banyak waktu bareng, susah seneng dalam belajar kita lewatin bareng-bareng. Dan untuk 'penyok', gue juga kangen kalian banget! Yap, 'penyok' itu adalah sebuah sebutan, kita bukan geng tapi hanya sekumpulan cewek-cewek yg autis sama dunia kita. Gak tau apa arti penyok itu apa, yang pasti hanya sebuah sebutan. Disana ada Vita, Mela, Lady, Wimbi, dan Ulfa. Mereka adalah best thing i've ever had in senior high school and for...ever :') Biasanya kalau diantara kita ada yang ulang tahun, kita bakal siapin surprise buat dateng kerumah si birthday girl itu...tapi sekarang? gue sama vita udah jauh dari rumah, kita jauh dari mereka. Biasanya kita kasih kue, kasih kado, tiup lilin bareng, foto-foto, ya walaupun terkadang ada beberapa surprise yang gagal..tapi kita gak peduli yang penting kehadiran dari kita, itu adalah poin yang penting! And the last but not the least! 'kompor'! i miss them so baddddddly! 'kompor' ,  juga bukan sebuah nama untuk geng, karna kita bukan geng tapi ya hanya sekumpulan wanita-wanita dengan penuh kasih sayang dan perhatian..ceilah haha gak perlu ya gue ceritain sejarah dari nama itu.. mereka adalah Hume, Atha dan Vivi. Yang jelas kita juga ngelewatin waktu bareng-bareng, kita nginep ya walaupun rumah kita deketan, kita nginep cuma buat begadang, nonton film, curhat-curhat ya semua hal-hal yang indah deh kita lakuin bareng-bareng. Sekarang semua hal itu tertunda untuk waktu yang menurut gue cukup lama...dearrrrr...Kompor,Penyok, Jojobaba! I MISS YOU!

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